What’s in a name? The Power of Purpose and Intention

There is such importance and power behind a name. I recall talking with my ex mother in law (a strong Christian) while I was pregnant with her first grandchild and she asked me what name I was planning to choose. She discussed with me the gift and power of intention in a name…I love the lessons and wisdom that come from older generations than our own (yes, even that from an ex mother in law) So.. long story short, I named her grandchildren Noah, Eden & Adam. Both a gift to her and my children.

Jennifer: my name essentially means “white fairy” or “white phantom” and has origins dating back to Roman Britain, perhaps even to pagan goddesses. Jennifer comes from a Cornish form of the Welsh name Gwenhwyfar “Jennifer” itself is Cornish for “white wave” or “white shadow”; “Gwenhwyfar,” as it turns out, is “derived from the elements gwen meaning ‘fair, white, blessed’ and sebara meaning ‘phantom, magical being.’

Interesting side note: I have been seriously considering allowing my natural hair to grow in. I have been colouring and hiding my new growth of grey, white and SILVER; literal SILVER hair, for years. It's going to be a long process but I am in it to win it. When I saw these photos of Annika von Holdt with her beautiful natural hair I was convinced that this is the path for me too. Am I the only one getting total MARVEL vibes here....channeling energy from your hands with white and silver hair!?

In ancient cultures and tribes all over the world they used to introduce themselves fully. Why do we no longer say ‘I’m Jennifer, pure of heart, a white enchantress’ it sounds WAY cooler and far more memorable!

And if you don’t identify with your birth name any longer than change it and find something that does resonate with the new you .. trust me, I’m a Scorpio. I’ve lived many lives in this one already.. we are the transformers! Take a name in your spiritual transformation process (but do remember there is a key and relevance in your birth namesake in your spiritual journey).

After asking the universe (manifesting, calling it into being) for a deep, real conversation about the things I’m passionate about with a stranger, I recently met a fascinating man while we were in Patong, Phuket for Songkran, the WATER PARTY of the year and the Buddhist New Year in Thailand!

When I returned from the washroom Leon was discussing ChatGPT with him and he hadn't tried it out....the first question he asked it was 'Explain to me Athenian Democracy' and that says it all.

He was a fellow Canadian at that, I rarely have met Canadians in my travels and/or fellow funeral directors (which I ALSO met here at this exact restaurant the day before but that's a story for another time) He is backpacker in his late 50’s… a world traveller, writer, extremely spiritual & knowledgeable likes to dissect society, technology, politics, space, quantum, discuss ‘conspiracy theories’… basically he knew his ‘stuff’ (the ‘stuff’ that matters to me) he ‘spoke’ my language.

(all joking aside I actually do speak 4 languages English, French, Portuguese and Spanish)

When I finally got around to asking his name (often in travels we just get talking naturally and casually and introductions tend to fall to the wayside) he said ‘well, I go by Dallas…’ I thought that was an odd way to put it and it felt impersonal to me.. I like to know the depths of people (I'm a Scorpio, we don't do surface level) and his statement felt lingering to me, so following my intuition I said “yes, but what is your ‘birth/real name’?” (which I wouldn’t normally ask!) and he said ‘you know, it’s been so long since I’ve used it I can’t even bring myself to say it out loud…’ and he didn’t say it… but I could tell he thought/felt deeply about it… and I KNOW, as a healer, that was a take away for him.. a call to heal his namesake wounds...often in lineage/generational patterns and childhood trauma wounds etc. there’s no escaping the inner works when they come calling for you…and they will at some point in your journey.

The other fascinating thing I find about my name is that oddly, I have many times in my life been referred to by strangers as ‘the lady in black’. Maybe it's due the sense of mystery or allure my energy sends out? I dunno...I remember when Leon and I stayed in Merida, Mexico in June 2021 at an old Mansion and the host kept calling me Lady in Black all weekend...for example brought a bottle of wine to our room and said " You're welcome Lady in Black. " That was the weekend that Leon read aloud to me all over the grounds from the Book of Osiris written by a clairaudient that I had found a few days prior at the local book store. I paid 60 pesos for it and it is valued at $450 usd (I love books however I am no collector etc quite the opposite actually since it's difficult to travel with tangible books) The book was a blessing to me in so many ways! Again, a story for another day.

I’m a Scorpio and my colour is black and I have an affinity for the tone.. and it’s my clothing colour of choice but my namesake is all about the white..maybe it's the balance between light and dark? White and Black? The ying and yang? Who knows but what I do know is that there is true power and gifting that is attached to words and names.

Writing prompt: What does your name mean? Compose an essay or write a poem about your name…your name sake.. anything that comes to you associated to your name .. have you noticed any generational patterns etc. learn about you!

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